When i was a small child, probably around 7, my brother and i would have sexually inappropriate contact with one another relatively frequently My brother is a year younger than me. My mom has a room downstairs and 2 rooms are just for guests so i don't have to worry about my mom It is about 1am and everyone in the house was asleep while i was doing the usual Video games and youtube late at night I was horny once again and my sister was asleep.
My sister is a psychologist who specialises in family therapy, so i can confidently tell you that incest is a much more frequent occurrence than most of us think We just don't hear about it because people never talk about it Speaking to a therapist would absolutely be the kindest thing to do for yourself. Ive put girls on the back burner until recently I moved out of my moms house and into a place with my best friend, downloaded the major dating apps and have had some decent success I had a girl sleepover for the first time the other night and i didnt even kiss her (we did cuddle a lot tho so idk maybe ill get another chance).
I was already living with my dad for the majority of the time so it was a pretty big but expected change. We were drinking with our mutual friends at a new years party Everyone was kind of off doing their own thing My brother was sitting on a bed and i say down next to him I (innocently) had my hand on his knew/thigh as we were talking and before i knew it, we were groping each other and kissing like crazy We were both really drunk as i said before
We haven't spoken since this happened, only. My friend was just kind of experimenting She would have boyfriends but she would always come back to me I've had sex with well over 100 people About 20 or so men I have hurt many people
There's nothing wrong with having those conversations with your sister My friend's mom was checked out 24/7 and her older brother gave her the talk lol But if you feel squicked out about discussing sex with your sibling (understandable), point her to some online resources or other family members that could help. Growing up i had two older sisters and we’d share beds all the time when we couldn’t sleep or had nightmares or whatever My 14 year old sister lives about an hour away from me with our mom On christmas when i came over she told me she had sex with her boyfriend for the first time
I (20f btw) almost passed out but gave her the talk abt how she needs to use protection blah blah blah She told me im the only person who knows and i know that if my mom found out she would absolutely freak out
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